Coming Out to Your Family and Friends

If you are gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, queer, or questioning, you may struggle with the decision whether to come out to your friends and family. Coming out is one of the hardest things someone can do. Telling your loved ones can definitely have its rewards – sharing such important, personal information about yourself can strengthen your relationship with them and may even deepen their trust in you. But it’s not always easy and some family and friends react poorly. It is important to remember that you shouldn’t feel pressured or scared to come out or stay in the closet. Everybody’s story is different, always listen to yourself. You know what is right for you.

If you are going to coming out, here are a few things to consider:

If you think that you might be asked to leave your home, ask friends or family in advance if you are able to stay with them. You can contact The Alliance for GLBTQ Youth for more information and support.

If you have fears about being kicked out, you might want to consider waiting until you are financially stable before talking openly with your family.

Stay in school no matter what!!! Life does get better and your education is key for survival. The Alliance can help you stay in your school or get you into one that’s safe.

Get support…you don’t have to do this alone! There are resources available and The Alliance can help connect you to them.

(More) Questions to Ask Yourself

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